The Pareto principle states that for many outcomes, roughly 80% of consequences come from 20% of causes. This applies strongly to the current dating market, you have found that out and that is why you are here.
20% of men have sex with 80% of women
Imagine standing in a room with nine other men… Of the ten of you, there are two that are getting attention from almost all women. Based on the Pareto Principle and applying this to the sexual dating market you will have figured out by now that the remaining 80 percent of men are chasing the remaining 20 percent of women. Where do you stand?